What God Taught Me in 2014 to Prepare for My Current Suffering

Life was a maelstrom for my family in 2014….

and it’s trending that way in 2024.

Ten years ago my family dealt with my son getting abused at daycare, a miscarriage, and the first of four ear surgeries for our daughter.

This year opened with my wife hurting her knee and ankle. 

Then my daughter had to go to the ER a couple times in addition to a hospital stay for GI issues.

And on top of it she has her fourth ear surgery in February.

Our vehicle had to be repaired while we had these medical issues going on.

But 2014 prepared me for a year like 2024.

It taught me that God is with you even if you don’t feel His Presence.

All things work for the good. Yes, even the horrific and confusing suffering you endure.

I started my freelance writing journey 10 years ago as a means to deal with the grief of losing my unborn child.

Mettle. Persistence. Call it what you will.

God gave me fortitude to continue when I wanted to give up all hope.

He has opened up so many doors with my writing work.

God is good all the time.

And that’s it’s okay to laugh and be joyful in the midst of struggle.

I wish I knew this fully in 2014.

I know this now in 2024 and if you are struggling with doubt, grief, suffering in your faith life please don’t hesitate to reach out to me.

Share your intentions in the comments section or email me at chicoine.matt@live.com how I may pray for you. ๐Ÿ™

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Catholic Meme Mondayโ€” Issue 130

Hope you had a Blessed Sixth Sunday of Easter!!

Time for anotherย Catholic Meme Monday. โœ๏ธย ๐Ÿ™

An early Ascension meme. ๐Ÿ™‚๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ™
Wayyyy too accurate. ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™
Amen! ๐Ÿ™
“Bacon is back on the menu.”
โ€”Fr. Mason, Holy Spirit Parish, homily Fifth Sunday of Easter
Meme I made last year for Saint Joseph’s feast day. ๐Ÿ™‚๐Ÿ™
The real Catholic influencer. ๐Ÿ•Š๏ธ๐Ÿ”ฅโœจ๐Ÿ™
Words of wisdom. ๐Ÿ’Ž
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Saint Francis de Sales (patron saint of journalists) would have an interesting time editing this interview. ๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜…
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A belated Star Wars Day meme. โœจ๐Ÿ™
Meme credit: Fete in Heaven on Instagram.

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3 Reasons Why St. Athanasius is My Favorite Saint!

I never even heard of Saint Athanasius during my formative years in Catholic education. Now he’s my favorite Catholic saint! I first learned of Athanasius when I was taking a Masterโ€™s course on the Trinity. With today being the feast day of St. Athanasius I want to share three key things about his life that make him my favorite saint of all-time!

fighter silhouette

Fighter against Heresy

Born in 296 A.D, Athanasius grew up in arguably the most chaotic time for the Catholic Church. A sinister heresy known as Arianism infested the 4th century Church. This heresy asserted that Jesus was not the Son of God, but simply the highest creation created by God to carry out His works. Arianism rejected the dogma of the Incarnation. St. Athanasius championed truth with his role in the 1st Ecumenical Council at Nicea. Here the Nicene Creed proclaimed the belief in the Trinity officially laid out in a dogmatic decree. Without God working through the person of Athanasius, Christianity may have suffered greatly from Arianism. We proclaim with St. Athanasius,

Holy Trinity

I believe in one God, the Father Almighty, Maker of heaven and earth, and of all things visible and invisible. And in one Lord Jesus Christ, the only-begotten Son of God, begotten of the Father before all worlds; God of God, Light of Light, very God of very God; begotten, not made, being of one substance with the Father, by whom all things were made.

Grassroots Movement

Along with fighting Arianism doctrinally, Athanasius as bishop of Alexandria shepherded his diocese toward truth. He talked the talk and walked the walk. Often at odds with the secular leaders of his day, Athanasius was exiled five times by various emperors including Constantineโ€™s son Emperor Constantius II. Athanasius even lived with monks during one of his banishmentsโ€” for six years!

The exile of Athanasius didn’t stop his supporters. His holy witness galvanized the faithful to push for his continual return despite his many exiles. I have great respect for anyone who witnesses the truth despite such threats.

Athanasiusโ€•Promoter of Holiness

The last reason that St. Athanasius is my favorite saint is his promotion of sanctity. Besides championing orthodoxy at the Council of Nicaea, Athanasius is maybe most well-known for his support of asceticism. Athanasius wrote Life of St. Antonyโ€”which became a best-seller in his timeโ€”and helped spread the acetic movement throughout the Church. I was drawn to the witness of St. Antonyโ€™s life of holiness when I read his biography by St. Athanasius. I am grateful for this gift!

Saint Athanasius

Saint Athanasius pray for us!

I hope to make up for my early years without knowledge of St. Athanasiusโ€”nicknamed the โ€œPillar of Orthodoxyโ€โ€”by spreading his story in as many ways possible. I will be sure to write more about him in the future. If you have time today, please think about reading the divine office today for his feast day and thank God for Athanasiusโ€™ gift of courage in standing up for truth and for having such a cool name to say as well. May God continue to grant us courage in promoting the truth of the Gospel!

Related Links

Selected Quotes from St. Athanasiusโ€”the Hammer of Orthodoxy

Saint Athanasius: New Advent

The True Lesson of St. Athanasius

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Overcoming Creativity Cave-Ins

Sometimes, I have felt trapped in terms of my thoughts and what I want to write or say. I go through periods as a writer where I want to write something really profound and amazing. I have these ambitions to write, and I just don’t know exactly how to start. Simliarly to when you’re learning to walk, you have to put one foot forward and then the next after that. You’re going to fall, and you’re not going to have the perfect introduction at times. It’s not going to be super inspiring or as exciting as what you normally write. But the key is to start and to just go from somewhere.

Blank Page, Dark Cave

I don’t like how I’m writing this post right now. I don’t know exactly where it’s leading me, and I’m just kind of rambling at this point. Sometimes, to unclog a brain blockage or a creativity block, that’s what you have to do. You just have to start somewhere and dig. Dig and keep digging, finding any glimpse of sunlight.

Imagine if you’re in a cave and it collapsed on you. There’s a lot of rubble in front of the entrance. The initial thought is panic. You are paralyzed, you can’t act at all, and you’re surprised. You think, “How am I going to get out of this cave? There is no way out. It’s blocked. We don’t have any shovels or pickaxes to dig ourselves out.” Start with the smallest piece of rubble and clear that out. Then work your way up to the middle pieces and eventually look for things in your area to help leverage against those larger boulders.

That could be anything. If there’s someone else in the cave that’s stuck with you, work together to find a way. Sometimes it’s not going to be apparent at all what you need to do or where your tools are going to be. What helps me, I’ve found, with writing when I feel caved in or have a creativity cave-in, is just to start and to continue to write. There’s freedom in allowing your mind to just wander and take it where it will. Then you can have some progress.

Now, sometimes there’s going to be an abrupt ending to your writing. It might just stop.

Stop. No really, stop doubting your ability. When you’re experiencing a “creativity cave-in” the only wrong way to write is to not start.

Thank you for sharing!

Why April 29th is One of my Favorite Days of the Year

I look forward to April 29th now.

This is a special day for my family as my wife and I asked for Saint Catherine to intercede for the safety of our daughter in May 2018. Signs were pointing to another impending miscarriage.

By the grace of God my daughter was safely born and is energetic.

We named her after the Sienese saint.

There hasn’t been a day since then we haven’t asked for the intercession of this amazing Saint and Doctor of the Church.

Saint Catherine of Siena pray for us!

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Catholic Meme Mondayโ€” Issue 129

Hope you had a Blessed Fifth Sunday of Easter!!

Time for another Catholic Meme Monday. โœ๏ธ ๐Ÿ™

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God has a plan. ๐Ÿ™
๐Ÿ˜… ๐Ÿ‹ ๐ŸŒŠ
Peter did tend to act rashly. ๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ™‚๐Ÿ˜…
Saint Athanasius pray for us. ๐Ÿ™
Sooooo many names!!
Here’s a sign. ๐Ÿฝ๏ธ๐Ÿงผ
Pew Patrol. ๐Ÿ˜…
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Yes!! ๐Ÿ˜… ๐Ÿ™‚ ๐Ÿ™
A very niche meme but one I had to make. ๐Ÿ™‚
May the Force be with youโ€”always. โœจ๐Ÿ™
endor #bible #catholicmeme
๐Ÿ•Š๏ธ ๐Ÿ™‚ ๐Ÿ™
Wayyyy too accurate. ๐Ÿ˜…
The Gospel According to Mario Kart. ๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ™‚
Meme inspired by my love of the Gospel and Tolkien.
๐ŸŒณ ๐Ÿ‘จ ๐Ÿ‘€ ๐Ÿ™
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Me: What do you want for dinner? My wife: I don’t know…

Thatโ€™s all I have this week. Stay tuned for next weekโ€™s Catholic Meme Monday. Receive updates straight to your email inbox by subscribing to The Simple Catholic blog.

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Catholic Meme Mondayโ€” Issue 128

Hope you had a Blessed Fourth Sunday of Easter!!

Time for another Catholic Meme Monday. โœ๏ธ ๐Ÿ™

๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜…
Time flies. ๐Ÿ•’ โœˆ๏ธ
He’s one of my patron saints. Lol
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Ghost appears…call the priest!
Jesus is the Good Shepherd. ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ™
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Meme for my unmarried readers. ๐Ÿ™‚๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ™
โ€œYou shall have no other gods before Me.โ€
โ€”Exodus 20:3
“Now you are old and advanced in years.”
The host of angels! ๐Ÿ™
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Make Eucharistic Adoration a part of your week.
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Everything works out in the end. ๐Ÿ™

Thatโ€™s all I have this week. Stay tuned for next weekโ€™s Catholic Meme Monday. Receive updates straight to your email inbox by subscribing to The Simple Catholic blog.

P.S. If you prefer receiving quality Catholic humor in daily doses follow me on Instagram @thesimplecatholic.

Thank you for sharing!