A 1013 Word Interview with Industrious Family about Fabiola


Editor’s Note: Matthew Chicoine interviewed Kathleen, Mary, and Faustina Bowen via phone call on October 21st, 2024. Some of the questions have been rearranged and edited to provide the best reader experience without losing any integrity of the answers given.

Images were provided courtesy of Kathleen Bowen.


How did you come across the book Fabiola?

Faustina: We attended Our Lady of Victory Homeschool and this book was part of the 9th grade curriculum. The author told the story of Saints Sebastian and Agnes differently than you heard before. Saint Pancratius is another saint you discover in the book that you don’t hear about often.

Is he a prominent character?

Yes, both in the book and our film adaptation.

“Fabiola draws parallels between third-century Rome and our contemporary world.”

When did you seriously consider making this a film?

Mary: In 2018 we made a feature film with a budget of about $5000 called “Outlaws of Ravenhurst”. In 2020, we made another feature length (Grisly Grisell) and made a short film between now and then to perfect our skills. We knew after this short film we wanted our next feature film to be Fabiola. Over the past five years we have been working on this project. We have five drafts of this film.

Could you share specific examples from the film that you think will particularly resonate with modern audiences?

Faustina: Fabiola really talks about Rome when it is on the brink of collapse. I feel like a lot of people in our day feel like our culture is in a period of collapse. Fabiola ends on a note of hope. High times in history also come from the brink of low times or times of trial. And we may be on the brink of that (hope) with our society.

In adapting this historical narrative for the screen, how did you balance staying true to the historical period while making it accessible and meaningful for today’s viewers?

Mary: When we took the book and turned it into a screenplay we found some of the characters didn’t always have situations that translate to today. With some of the saints they didn’t seem to have personalities, we wanted to show that these characters are individuals and we wanted to showcase both their weaknesses and strengths to show how they can be relatable to us today.

For example, some of the saints were very lofty and aloof. When you are writing a script you are peeling the character apart like an onion to see the layers. We gave the characters a particular vice in the story to make it more relatable. The saints were focused on trying to overcome the vice whereas the other pagan characters weren’t as interested in overcoming the vices. So when we re-added the flesh/depth of the character these saints were different from what the original text portrays (which was more one-dimensional).

The film seems to explore themes of sacrifice and unwavering faith. Could you tell us about a particular scene or character arc that you feel most powerfully conveys these themes?

Faustina: I would say one of the most powerful examples of this is a fictional character (Syra), the Christian slave of Fabiola. Syra said, “She is sacrificing every moment of her life to bring the Gospel to Fabiola.

Kathleen: While the themes of sacrifice and faith are strong, I really think the audience is going to leave the theater with a strong sense of forgiveness from the film. In a lot of ways the film could be titled, Fulvius, after the villain. Our film will highlight the Catholic understanding of forgiveness which is really about asking God for forgiveness, then forgiving ourselves, and it’s really a bonus if others forgive us.

What inspired you to choose this specific story from Christian history, and what unique perspective does Fabiola offer compared to other faith-based films?

Faustina: Two of the characters in Fabiola are converted like how Peter and Paul are converted. One character is converted more through words than a dramatic way. She has a more sophisticated conversion. Another character has more of a Pauline conversion (knocked-off his horse). Something very momentous occurs to him and this causes him to change his ways.

In creating this film, what challenges did you face in depicting the early Christian experience in a way that would speak to both Catholic and broader audiences?

Mary: We didn’t compromise the dialogue (the word Catholic doesn’t appear in the script- we use the term Christian). Hopefully, this film is a way to bring Protestants into a realm that these are people (the martyrs) they can find heroes in. One major sticking point might be Constantine, but he is not a major figure in Fabiola.

Faustina: The thing I wanted to add, we recently watched the old Charlton Heston The Ten Commandments and we want the quality of the film to be like that movie. While it’s a Protestant made film it still appealed to Catholics. Likewise, we see our vision for the film to be similar to that high quality of faith that it appeals to a broader Christian audience. One of the patrons is actually a Baptist.

As this is your fifth film, how has your approach to creating faith-based content evolved, and what lessons from your previous projects influenced the making of Fabiola?

Mary: Something we have learned over the years, that we haven’t heard criticisms from people is that the acting is bad. We have made the lines digestible, working on camera angles. Learning how to run schedules, working with a larger cast. Also, we have been able to shift our attention from filming to the more detailed things (better scripts, building the set in an existing structure that was in the Roman area).

Kathleen: Me watching Faustina and Mary directing this time I have noticed the amount of creativity and time spent in preparation has been impressive. The time dedicated to the details and preparation really made the difference with Fabiola. It has taken seven years to get to a point where the product turns out where it looks like a movie. None of us went to film school this was all self-taught.

How can my audience support you in this project?

Faustina: We have a newsletter for them to receive updates. They can also contribute or invest at Industrious Family.

About the Bowens:

Mary Bowen and sister Faustina along with their mother Kathleen have been producing and directing films for nearly a decade. Fabiola will be the Bowen family’s first film with a full budget projected to be $1.25 million.

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Eucharistic Revival in Ireland: A Movement of Faith

How is God working in Ireland?

Our City in Derry in the North of Ireland has suffered. The Derry City Walls built during the 1600s tell a story of British oppression and persecution. During ‘The Troubles’, a period of 30 years from the 1960s to 1998, Derry went through trauma, grief and untold suffering as sectarian violence and feuds were ongoing between paramilitary groups.

The trauma and suffering did not end with the ‘Good Friday Agreement’ which brought about fragile peace from sectarianism. The people across Derry and the rest of Northern Ireland continue to struggle with PTSD, issues of poverty, despair, mental illness, unemployment, imprisonment, addiction, violence, family breakdown, and suicide. Northern Ireland has the highest rate of suicide in the UK with higher rates among men and the youth.

It is into this darkness that Jesus chose to come and shine bright.

The Franciscan Friars: A Ministry of Hope

The Franciscan friars of the renewal settled in Derry in 2010 and since then they have ministered to the broken rejected and most in need in derry. They offer love, material assistance and a journey into intimacy with God as well as an invitation to find the ultimate joy in knowing that regardless of circumstances we are loved as sons and daughters of God.

The CFR friars regularly swap about the members of their community within the different friaries. In September 2023 Fr Antonio Maria Diez De Medina CFR was transferred to Derry Northern Ireland from London. In London Fr Antonio had been in active ministry with young adults alive in their faith as well as walking alongside a group called Cenacle Charismatic London led by Ania Graglewska, a Polish lady living in London sharing the joys of her own healing miracle and her love of the Gospel and the Holy Spirit.

Seeds of Revival: A Vision for Renewal

Fr Antonio could see the amazing love the people of Derry have for their faith , the Eucharist, Our Lady and our celebrated Sr Clare Crockett, newly made servant of God. Fr Antonio and his friends from Cenacle London decided to come alongside those in Derry seeking breakthrough for a renewal of the Catholic faith in Ireland.

Many of us in Derry wanted to be part of raising up Jesus in the most Holy Eucharist as the ONLY solution to all of what our people are suffering. The Franciscan friars of the renewal and a dedicated team of lay people began to step out in faith for something brand new to us. Fr Antonio encouraged us as we got in contact with other CFR friars in America to hear about how massive Eucharistic processions going across the whole of America were bringing about an ‘on fire’ Eucharistic Revival. In particular we connected with Br Damien Novak CFR in Newark New Jersey, Fr Gabriel Kyte CFR in Albuquerque New Mexico and more recently Fr John Anthony Boughton CFR who is the General Servant of the community in the Bronx New York.

The First Steps: October 2023 Procession

As we experienced and heard the witness of the friars and others in America talking about life changing experiences in the Eucharistic processions they were part of we found we were catching fire with the same flame of love! The same Eucharistic burning fire of the heart!

We had our first Eucharistic procession in Derry Ireland in the neighbourhood around the friary on 28th October 2023. This was a direct response to what we felt God wanted to come against the Halloween culture that has developed in our city over the recent decades as people, hurting and hungry for meaning and spirituality, search in pagan Irish shamanism and witchcraft for the solution to their problems. Derry has become so immersed in these alternative spiritualities that it boasts it’s title as Halloween capital of Europe.

The Eucharistic procession on 28th October 2023 just before Halloween was a cry from Our Lord in the Eucharist and His body of Christ the Catholic faith community in Derry , the Eucharistic beating heart of Jesus , to return to God who Is Love. Our God who has already done all this before us, who has won the battle against sin and death and is offering us Himself, body blood soul and divinity and an invitation to eternal life in Him.

Breaking Through the City Walls: A Historic Moment

Jesus is the true Sonlight!

The Emmaus 2023 neighborhood Eucharistic Procession was a great success. Following this celebration, Fr Antonio and his friends from London met with several local organizers. Together, they planned to create something entirely new for Derry in 2024.

Human Life International Ireland , Executive Director Patrick McCrystal, and many of the local Derry people felt our Lord wanted the next Eucharistic procession event along with the Cenacle London Charismatic involvement to be a breakthrough for LIFE. Patrick McCrystal held a reception after the procession at a hotel in the city centre. This gave an opportunity for all the teams involved in organising the procession to unite. What was communicated was a sense of joy and overwhelming to tears.

We knew we were part of something supernatural. We could not process what had just happened. “A breakthrough Eucharistic procession passed through the arches of the Derry city walls – the first in 400 years! Bishop Donal McKeown gave permission for this historic event. The Franciscan Friars of the Renewal led the procession, joined by diocesan priests and seminarians. The Benedictine Monks of Perpetual Adoration from Silverstream Priory and the Home of the Mother Sisters (Sr Clare Crockett’s Order) also participated. Hundreds of lay people completed this momentous gathering.”

The Impact on the Streets of Derry

We felt the sense that God was breaking bonds of division and free masonic strongholds. The impact was phenomenal. People were kneeling and crying in the streets, blessing themselves, walking with us. At one point, people sang the Divine Mercy Chaplet as the priest raised the Eucharist high in the town square. Everyone present—including busy shoppers and security guards—knelt in reverence and worship.

The Effatha ‘be opened’ Eucharistic procession carried deep significance. The people of Derry and their priests gathered to pray for specific intentions. They prayed for hearts to open to God and others. They sought reparation and repentance for humanity’s turn from God and His commandments. They asked God to overcome global forces of fear, evil, lies and sin. They prayed for revival and unity in the Church. They requested an end to human trafficking, abortion, and euthanasia. They sought freedom through the Spirit of Truth. Finally, they prayed for priests to embrace deep Marian and Eucharistic devotion.

Growing Momentum: From Local to Global

The Effatha procession in Derry also launched 40 days of perpetual adoration worldwide. The team in London created a website where adorers could sign up for an hour, regardless of time zone or location. It was hugely successful and the graces of the Eucharistic revival were evident all through it. Momentum was building.

On December 12, 2024, the lay teams, along with the Franciscan friars and the Sisters of the Renewal, organized a Eucharistic procession. It took place in their neighborhood in Derry to honor Our Lady of Guadalupe, the patroness of their community. This procession attracted huge attention and support and was filmed by EWTN. Many school children of all ages came out to join us as the procession passed the school yards. Some of the older students passed out roses and miraculous medals to people passing in cars and on the walkways. Again we witness families and the elderly in their gardens some with tears streaming down their faces kneeling and blessing themselves.

St. Brigid’s Cloak: A Global Revival Begins

Before plans for the December 12, 2024, Eucharistic procession had even begun, the teams received in prayer that Our Lord was calling for something greater. He was placing it on their hearts to organize an even bigger, wider-reaching Eucharistic procession in 2025. It would take place on the feast of St. Brigid, Saturday, February 1—one of Ireland’s most significant days. St. Brigid, along with St. Patrick, is a beloved patron saint of Ireland.

One young man on the team, devoted to Our Lady, felt she was asking for a simultaneous Eucharistic procession in Medjugorje. The idea was powerful: the same day, the same time. As soon as the announcement was made, it went viral.

Fr. Leon and his team in Medjugorje responded immediately with a heartfelt “yes.” In unity and agreement, they embraced the call. Tears flowed, emotions ran high, and the Holy Spirit moved powerfully as people around the world said yes.

Suddenly, people from all over the world began reaching out. They wanted to unite with us by holding their own Eucharistic processions. We quickly realized St. Brigid was interceding for us!

She once asked the King of Ireland for all the land where she spread her cloak. He agreed, and miraculously, her cloak covered the entire country. This sparked a great revival and a return to the faith in Ireland around 500 AD.

United in Prayer: A Worldwide Movement

Most recently we got news that Fr George Stewart a priest in the Bronx New York is leading a Eucharistic Procession to unite with us. We also just heard about 3 Eucharistic processions that will be happening in Dublin and converging at the Radio Maria studios as well as another procession in Manchester England with the Men of St Joseph.

The Eucharistic revival has sparked another beautiful development. Communities have stepped forward to offer 24-hour adoration with prayers of intercession during the feast of St Brigid on February 1st, 2024. Fr Gerry Campbell and ‘The 12’ in Knockbridge, County Louth, Ireland, joined this initiative. Craig Lodge House of Prayer in Argyll, Scotland, also participated. Both communities conducted 24-hour worship and adoration. Together, they united in prayer for worldwide Eucharistic Revival.

Looking Forward: A Call to Action

The Eucharistic Processions, adoration and pilgrimages of coach loads of people coming from all around is snowballing!

On February 1st, hundreds of school children will lead the faithful behind priests carrying the Eucharist in procession. The participants will pray for these intentions: that world governments recognize Jesus Christ as King, that abortion, euthanasia, war and other threats to human life end, that families heal from sin, division, addiction and suicide, that the Immaculate Heart of Mary triumph, that global elite agendas and healthcare dictatorships yield to the tranquility of God’s order, and that the Holy Spirit pours out a new Pentecost of hope during the Jubilee Year 2025.

We are seeing mighty miracles in our midst. Please get involved! This is a Eucharistic Revival! Jesus is coming for His people!

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Breaking: Catholic Families Face Chaos, Grace in Prayer Time


This breaking news report was brought to you by The Simple Catholic, your go-to source for practical faith, family, and everyday holiness.


🚨 BREAKING NEWS🚨

WIDESPREAD REPORTS OF PRAYER-TIME PANDEMONIUM SWEEP NATION’S HOUSEHOLDS

📍 ANYTOWN, USA – Local parents report unprecedented levels of chaos during attempted family prayer time. Sources confirm multiple instances of toddlers using rosaries as lassos and missalettes as building blocks.

“My 2-year-old spent our entire prayer time yesterday trying to do somersaults in the pew,” reports local mother of three, while attempting to prevent her youngest from eating a holy card.

This has been I.M. Frazzled reporting. Back to our main story…

Serious about the shenanigans. 🙂😄

Growing in Holiness While Your Toddler Grows in Mischief

The Catholic Church calls parents to be the primary educators of their children in the faith. But let’s be honest – some days, getting everyone fed and mostly clothed feels like a miracle. How do we balance the call to raise saints while living in the beautiful mess of family life?

When Pinterest Prayer Time Meets Reality

You’ve seen those pictures on Catholic social media: perfectly behaved children kneeling around a gorgeous home altar, peacefully praying the rosary. Meanwhile, at your house, your toddler just filled the holy water font with Cheerios, and your preschooler is pretending to be St. Michael the Archangel by jumping off the couch with a plastic sword.

Here’s the truth: both realities can lead to holiness.

The Eucharist: Source, Summit, and Survival Guide

Remember Jesus multiplying loaves and fishes to feed the crowd? He’s still in the business of multiplying our meager efforts. That hurried “Jesus, help!” while breaking up a sibling squabble? That’s a prayer. The quick blessing before meals while someone’s already face-planting into their spaghetti? Still counts.

The key isn’t perfection – it’s persistence. As St. Alphonsus Liguori said, “The Eucharist is the source and summit of the Christian life.” Even if you’re attending Mass with a squirming toddler who just announced their urgent bathroom needs during the consecration, you’re there. You’re showing up. That matters.

Saints-in-Training Department (Including Parents)

Consider St. Louis Martin and St. Zélie Martin, parents of St. Thérèse of Lisieux. They didn’t have a Pinterest-perfect household either. They dealt with tantrums, sleepless nights, and all the regular challenges of raising children. Yet they became saints not despite their family life, but through it.

A Field Guide to Realistic Family Prayer:

  1. The “Better Than Nothing” Principle
  • A 30-second morning offering beats a planned hour-long devotion that never happens
  • Car ride prayers count (even if interrupted by “Are we there yet?”)
  • Bedtime prayers may include more giggles than solemnity – God loves joy
  1. Embrace the Chaos
  • Your toddler’s interpretive dance during the Divine Mercy Chaplet isn’t ruining prayer time – it’s just adding choreography
  • Those interruptions? Opportunities for practicing patience (aka involuntary mortification)
  1. Build Holy Habits
  • Make simple prayers as routine as brushing teeth
  • Use visual cues: a cross by the door, sacred art at child height
  • Let children catch you praying (even if it’s just a moment of quiet desperation)
Our Lady of Shenanigans approves this field guide. ☑️👍

The “High Standards vs. Real Life” Balance

The Church gives us beautiful ideals to strive for, but remember – God chose to enter human history as a baby. He understands family life intimately. The same Jesus who said “Be perfect as your heavenly Father is perfect” also welcomed children who were probably not sitting quietly with their hands folded.

Your domestic church doesn’t need to look like a monastery. It needs to look like a family striving for holiness in the middle of real life.

Final Dispatch: Hope for the Weary

📍 UPDATE: Sources confirm that despite the apparent chaos, grace is still effectively reaching Catholic families nationwide. Evidence suggests that even imperfect prayers are being heard and answered.

Remember: The same God who can turn water into wine can transform your messy attempts at family prayer into something beautiful. He specializes in working with imperfect materials.

Keep showing up. Keep trying. And next time your toddler bellows “AMEN!” loud enough to wake the saints – smile. That’s the sound of faith being planted in fertile (if chaotic) soil.

[End of Report]

P.S. If you enjoyed this article, text “CHAOS2GRACE” to… just kidding. But do remember that you’re not alone in this beautiful mess of Catholic family life.

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Finding Magic in the Mundane

The Existential Cubicle

What am I doing here? Is this all to life? These thoughts occasionally cross my mind as I sit in my work cubicle. Struggling with the daily routine of work and family life, my mind tends to wander off toward fantasy. I think part of it stems from a desire to escape my mundane situation. Reading fantasy allows me to attain that escapism while remaining in the comfort of my living room.

A Moment of Literary Insight

After putting my children to bed and waiting for my wife to return from errand-running, I had some free time to read. I picked up Chesterton’s Orthodoxy and spent about twenty minutes navigating his semi-autobiographical work. Suddenly, I stopped at a passage from his fourth chapter entitled The Ethics of Elfland. The great English wordsmith writes, “I have said that stories of magic alone can express my sense that life is not only a pleasure but a kind of eccentric privilege” (Orthodoxy p. 54).

Life as an Eccentric Privilege

In other words, we shouldn’t merely enjoy life via self-gratification, but rather view our existence on this earth through the lens of privilege—life is a free gift. My children point to this reality, often lost as we reach adulthood, that life should be joyful. We should revel in the strangeness and idiosyncrasies of the universe, not quake at the seeming despair when we encounter things and events that do not fit our controlled world.

The Fallacy of Repetition

On the other end of the adult’s worldview lies perceiving re-occurrence as a bad thing or something to avoid. Chesterton put it this way:

“All towering materialism which dominates the modern world rests ultimately upon one assumption; a false assumption. It supposes that if a thing goes on repeating itself it is probably dead; a piece of clockwork. People feel that if the universe was personal it would vary; if the sun were alive it would dance. This is a fallacy even in relation to known fact…A man varies his movements because of some slight element of failure or fatigue…For grown-up people are not strong enough to exult in monotony. But perhaps God is strong enough to exult in monotony. It is possible that God says every morning, ‘Do it again’ to the sun; and every evening, ‘Do it again’ to the moon” (Orthodoxy pp. 50-51).

Rediscovering Wonder and Awe

Wonder and awe stem from the ability to be amazed at creation even if it’s the hundredth or thousandth time viewing a starry night or noticing a bird gathering straw for her nest. Children possess the magic of living—the ability to love life despite doing the same activity over and over again. Monotony, dullness, and lethargy do not enter the vocabulary of youth. Chesterton reminded me that I need to return to my youth. I need to jettison the false assumption that repetition is inherently bad and variety alone leads to life!

Finding Magic in Reality

I need not enter the Pevensie’s wardrobe, or a supernatural rabbit hole, or even run headfirst toward a brick-wall on an English train station between platforms 9 and 10 (although I did visit this fictional landmark during my trip to Europe 😊). Instead, I can encounter magic in this life by visiting my children’s closet as I gaze at the array of Lego men and women scattered in an apparent random order on top of, within, and under the closet shelves. What adventures are they going on today?

I can also lower myself to the level of my youngest son as his eyes open with joy at the sound of the door opening. He enjoys leaving in the morning as he gets to meander outside and gaze at the wheels of my car. How incredibly simple, yet fulfilling would life be if I approached every day as a magical experience?

Embracing the Divine Perspective

The life of children is akin to that of our Divine Creator—they do not get bogged down by the monotony [apparent monotony that is] in this world. I ask for the Holy Spirit to enliven my soul to view any dullness and routine in my life as a gift!

“Perhaps God is strong enough to exult in monotony. It is possible that God says every morning, ‘Do it again’ to the sun; and every evening, ‘Do it again’ to the moon”

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The Little Way of the Hobbit: Celebrating Tolkien Day

January 3rd celebrates two important events: the Feast of the Holy Name of Jesus and the anniversary of the birth of J.R.R. Tolkien. As a Catholic obvious the former has to take precedence, I mean Jesus is the center of the Catholic faith. However, I think it is ironic, maybe even providential, of the placement of the great English literary figure’s birthday within the season of Christmastide. The famed creator of Middle Earth himself was a devout Catholic and belief in Jesus Christ permeated his entire life. I admire Tolkien because of his creativity, devotion, and ability to invoke joy into my life simply by reading his works or striking up a conversation with a random stranger about his life!

Recently, I wrote an article published in EpicPew.com discussing the reasons for canonizing Tolkien as a saint of the Church. According to the Baltimore Catechism paragraph 215 answered the question of why Catholics honor saints in this way,

“We honor the saints in heaven because they practiced great virtue when they were on earth, and because in honoring those who are the chosen friends of God we honor God Himself.”

The excitement, peace, and joy I receive when reading, researching, or talking about Middle Earth ultimately is aimed at a higher reality–a deeper reality of full communion with God in Heaven.

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The Simple Catholic’s Fourth Christmas Card

Happy Fourth Anniversary of the Inaugural Chicoine Family Christmas Card! While normal families publish and share a card each year my parents have been dealing with my shenanigans. This year was a blur for them. They run a tight shipwreck!

It’s that special time of year again where I get to share all about my family’s adventures and shenanigans. As the resident mischief expert (and kindergartener!), I’ll provide you with the most accurate account of our year.

We’ll go in age order because that’s what we always do at our house (especially when opening presents).

Mommy

Mommy is still a special education teacher and somehow manages to keep up with all of us. She loves playing Pickleball with Daddy (I don’t understand why they hit a ball back and forth when they could be coloring). She took my siblings kayaking this summer, and now she keeps dropping hints about wanting her own kayak for Christmas.

Recently, Mommy had surgery which means I can’t use her as my personal trampoline. I made her lots of pictures to help her feel better. I’m such a thoughtful child.

Daddy

Daddy is still doing his writing stuff and something called being a “semi-funny Catholic meme-lord” (I don’t know what that means, but people seem to laugh). He’s the best jungle gym and gives amazing horsey-rides!

This summer, Daddy went to something called the National Eucharistic Congress. He came back super excited about Jesus and won’t stop talking about it. He’s been reading us a book called The Hobbit at night. I prefer coloring during story time, but my siblings seem interested in this Bilbo person.

Noah

My oldest brother is in 7th grade now (he’s getting so old!). This fall, he did Cross Country, which meant we had to watch him run in circles at random parks. He was pretty fast though!

Noah plays the silver trumpet in band and loves football, especially the Green Bay Packers. He gave me one of their extra hoodies to wear during games. He also makes the best Mac-n-cheese for me!

Amelia

My awesome sister is in 5th grade and plays the saxo-thingy in band. She’s the queen of crafts and makes me cool things out of cardboard.

We got new lofted beds and Amelia has a desk under her bed. She uses this for cool creations, artwork, and making me mini-gifts. She even made me a birthday banner and helped me when I got roller skates! Best sister ever!

Josiah

My partner in mischief is in 3rd grade now. He’s become quite the one-man football team, running back and forth in our living room playing entire games by himself. It’s weird, but Mommy and Daddy think it’s cute. He also got to be in the Olympics! We traveled down to Vermilion. I think my brother is famous now.

He loves looking at football cards, playing with our dog, and is reading chapter books now. We still get into plenty of trouble together!

Avila (that’s me!)

I started kindergarten this year and I’m basically a genius now. I love writing letters, numbers, and drawing everything I see. My artwork is displayed all over the house (mostly with tape, and sometimes in places Mommy hasn’t discovered yet).

I’ve mastered many new shenanigans this year, including:

  • Building fort cities in the living room
  • Leaving the bathroom door open so Halpert can drink from his fancy water bowl (Mommy calls it a toilet)
  • Spending an entire week as a dragon (ROAR!)

My favorite foods are anything from Mommy’s plate (it always tastes better), and breakfast burritos with hot sauce. I’m very sophisticated.

Halpert

The newest member of our family! He’s a fluffy puppy who thinks he’s a mighty guard dog. He barks at everyone who walks past his kingdom (our house) and loves to sit on top of the couch to survey his domain.

He’s the best at snuggling when we’re sad and playing with toys. He sleeps in his crate but I’m working on convincing my parents to let him sleep in my room (so far, no luck).

Love, ACGC – Professional Dragon, Fort Architect, and Certified Mischief Maker

P.S. Thanks to Daddy for helping edit this letter. I paid him in dragon roars this year!

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3 Ways the Holy Family will Help Your Family

Holy Family

According to St. John Paul II, “As the family goes, so goes the nation and so goes the whole world in which we live.” Families are a microcosm of society. The breakdown of the family unit is the greatest tragedy of our lifetime.

Living with other people is challenging.

Raising children is a full-time job. It’s an underappreciated and exhausting job. There is no parent manual. Too many unique circumstances exist for a clear-cut black and white rulebook. Right?!

While the details of parenthood can be debatable, there is a blueprint to raising a family with grace and love. This model is found by examining the Holy Family! Jesus. Mary. Joseph.

An analysis of Scripture and Traditional Catholic teaching will show us that the Holy Family’s love, obedience to God’s will, humility, and patience give you an example of how to foster meaningful and lasting relationships with your friends, spouses, children, and neighbors.

Model for the Family

In his Angelus on December 31st, 2006, Pope Emeritus Benedict XVI declared, “The Holy Family of Nazareth is truly the “prototype” of every Christian family which, united in the Sacrament of Marriage and nourished by the Word and the Eucharist, is called to carry out the wonderful vocation and mission of being the living cell not only of society but also of the Church, a sign and instrument of unity for the entire human race.

Jesus displayed obedience to his parents. This truth is shown in the tradition of the Catholic Church. The opening Antiphon in the Divine Office for the Feast of the Holy Family is “Come let us worship Christ, the Son of God, who was obedient to Joseph and Mary.” Simple yet profound!

Imagine being God and still able to submit yourself to the authority of your father and mother.

Silence leads to sanctity

Guess how many words of St. Joseph did the Evangelists record in the Gospels? If you guessed a whopping ZERO then you are correct my friend! Though included in the key infancy and adolescent scenes of Jesus’ life the foster father of our Lord said nothing!

St. Joseph quote meme

The adage “actions speaks louder than words” applies more directly to St. Joseph than arguably any other person in history– as we can only analyze his actions. Cardinal Robert Sarah in The Power of Silence: Against the Dictatorship of Noise plainly stated, “Man must make a choice: God or nothing, silence or noise.” Using Sarah’s logic Joseph not only clearly, but overwhelmingly chose God!

Joseph’s ability to heed the Angel’s message to flee the wrath of King Herod demonstrates a complete trust and dependence on God. The noise of life yanks me in different directions– all away from God. Looking to the silent saint as a role model helps to remind me of the importance of asking the Lord for help.

St. Joseph provides the ideal for what it means to be a kind and loving father and man. More than ever this world needs strong men to be role models for their families and communities.

Humility overcomes Hubris

humility over pride

According to St. Louis de Montfort, “The Son of God became man for our salvation but only in Mary and through Mary.” Mary is honored because of her humility and obedience to the will of God. Her YES to God’s plan was the pathway by which Jesus entered our world.

Like St. Joseph, Mary’s trust in God was evident in her obedience, despite the unique circumstances the Holy Family was in.

Conclusion

Due to Original Sin, humanity suffers a fractured relationship with God. The Mystery of the Incarnation involved God becoming man in the Person of Jesus Christ. Divine Love selected Joseph of Nazareth to be the legal and foster father of Jesus Christ and protector of Mary. Mary was chosen to be the mother of the Son of God.

St. John Paul II closed his Apostolic Exhortation Familiaris Consortio by saying, “I entrust each family to Him, to Mary, and to Joseph.”

May all men reflect upon the silent, humble, and diligent example of the Holy Family. And may the Holy Spirit grant us opportunities to be holier versions of ourselves!

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