Why You Need to Tell Your ‘Why’ Story

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“People don’t buy what you do; they buy why you do it.” —Simon Sinek

That phrase is continued throughout his book Start with Why.

💡Your why or purpose for your personal brand or company will be something that sets you apart.

Is this something you thought about?

Start with Your ‘Why’

Don’t begin with what you do or even how your product or service works

❤️ The starting place has to be deeper— go to the heart of the matter.

It’s natural to start with asking someone: “What do work do you do?”

Have you considered asking people:

“Why are you a ___________?”

A bit uncomfortable question (maybe at first) right?

Here’s why I became a writer 👇

My first why was surviving depression from losing kids to miscarriage (I write to help show others how to survive a similar horror).

A second why is related to my first— my younger kids are my rainbow babies & they both need speech therapy.

Daily I have to listen 👂 carefully to what my kids needs because it’s not always clear.

💡This skill translates well into the workplace

Understanding the importance of communication has deepened my ability to help people communicate effectively.

🎯 What’s (there I am again with defaulting to ‘what’ 😅) your ‘why’?

Share yours in the comments ⤵️

Related Links

Start With Why- Simon Sinek

Why is it Important to Ask “Why?”

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Why 2020 Will be The Return of the Simple Catholic

This marks the start of something new….

In April I almost died from Covid19

🔷Young

🔶No previous health conditions

🔷 I took plenty of Vitamins

But I still got sick— and my content game never recovered fully

But many times life never works out as planned.

The good guys lose and the bad guys win

By the grace of God and the support of my family, friends, and my faith community I survived the virus.

🎶 Let the good (insane) times roll 🎵

But the hits of craziness kept coming:

Remote learning for my kids (mental health drainer there)

The insane requirement on teachers (my wife is a special education teacher) forced me to rethink my approach to my freelance business.

I knew my limits— pandemic + special needs kids + increasing work demands at my “day” job made it a simple choice— I had to put a pause on consistent writing.

I’ve been living on recycled content (mostly) or less than my 💯 work.

I used to be ranked #92 in Feedspot’s Top Catholic Websites and Bloggers. Now I’m in the top 110. I’m not upset about the ranking loss. But I am a bit frustrated at myself for losing the influence I had to help educate and inspire Catholics across the world to find joy in the Gospel.

The Devil is in attack mode

The Enemy has attacked me unceasingly with the sins of anger and sloth. Too often I got distracted by others’ failure to take the pandemic seriously and that wrath zapped me of energy to read and write about Catholicism.

Return of The Simple Catholic

Today is the start of a restart— my goal for the rest of the year is to get more creative, collaborate more, and be more disciplined.

Why?

Because I want to provide YOU with a how-to guide to return from a bat 💩 crazy year and succeed (all the while thriving in the truth and hope of the Good News of Jesus Christ.

Today I renew my commitment to earn back trust. I won’t wait for the calendar to flip to 2021. Partnering with the Holy Spirit and my team of The Simple Catholic Supporters I gathered over the past year or two, I will end 2020 on a high note.

How do you bounce back from a big backslide in success?

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The Simple Catholic Named One of Top Catholic Blogs in 2019

I was pleasantly surprised and very humbled to receive the news that my blog The Simple Catholic was recognized by Feedspot.com as one of the top 120 Catholic blogs for 2019 (#102).

Thank you for support

Thank you to all the people who helped me with encouragement, writing guest posts, and engaging with my content on this platform. You my readers are the reason I write. I humbly use this platform as a means to inform and entertain you about the Catholic faith and my journey as a parent with special needs children.

Special shout to my wife Jennifer she was instrumental to my success: she proofread my articles, gave me time to write, and listened to me brainstorm my ideas 💡

It is also her birthday and I had a unique and cool surprise for her—stayed tuned later as I will reveal that later today. 😊

Thank you to William Hemsworth M.Div, Orlando U Javien Jr., Andrew Garofalo, and Megan Naumovski for your guest posts and to Keith A. Little for your future content on my site. Please visit the Guest Posts page to read these stellar works by these gifted writers.

Thank you to Pete Socks for reaching out to me with help in promoting visibility of my writing services.

I am a blessed man. I am nothing without your help and ultimately the grace of the Holy Trinity.

Here is a link to the top Catholic blogs if you are curious about the list. There are excellent blogs to follow so please check those out. 👍

https://blog.feedspot.com/catholic_blogs/

#catholic #catholiccontent #chicoinecontent #gratitudeisouroxygen #gratitude #success #catholicblogs #catholicwriting #writing

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Why the Best Writing Rarely Develops as You Originally Planned

I am the dictionary definition of a Type A personality. Order, preparation, planning, scheduling, and structure are my addiction. I thrive on a rigid schedule and always need a contingency plan in place just in case the first 37 plans fail.

Benjamin Franklin spoke of the importance of planning, “By failing to prepare, you are preparing to fail.” You May be worried that the title of this post is a sign I might be abandoning my priority on order and organization. Have no fear! That is not going to happen.

Life includes Curved Roads

While preparation sets you best for daily and lifelong success, it is still important to remind your that life does not always follow a straight path. How I wished it were that “straightforward” and simple!

Sometimes situations get complex. You may forget something or other people may slow our progress. Sometimes things outside our control run into our sights like a deer running across the interstate unexpectedly. We might notice in time to avoid collision. More often than not we will hit these unexpected situations.

We Can’t Plan for Everything

These are the times are best efforts to plan ahead seem to be in vain. This morning started that way for me. Coming off little sleep, Monday hit me. Hit me hard! Initially, I reacted poorly, I am ashamed to admit. All my hopes for the day appeared to be dashed. Pessimism overwhelmed me.

Through the help of my amazing wife, my stress-induced slide stopped. I took action and wrote about my struggles. Giving little thought about structure, I just wrote from the heart. I wrote how I was feeling.

Suddenly, after a minutes I had a few paragraphs. A few minutes later more and paragraphs. I did not originally intend on writing this post today. I had a “grander”, a “better”, and a “more prepared”?topic to discuss. What I came to realize is that I was writing for myself–selfishly. I wanted to have a perfect post. A planned and perfectly executed article. What I definitely was not thinking about earlier was my audience. You!

Allow Yourself to Show in Your Writing

The reason I believe my best writing is the least planned is because it includes the following:

  • Lots of heart
  • My vulnerability
  • Strong desire to help others

I am not immune from hurt. This really is no surprise anymore.

Because of my hubris, I am quick to forget the reason I write. I write to help others. To help you. I want to give hope at the beginning of a stressful week. I want to give hope to new writers that it is okay if your posts are not perfect. Why do I fail so miserably sometimes?  I am merely human. You are too.

Learn from Challenges

Planning your day and weekly schedule is still important. Learn from my mistakes. Don’t let rigid structure control your life. Allow it to guide you.

If you found this post helpful please share it with a someone you know it can help as well. Please also tell me your current struggles in the comments section. I would love to listen and encourage you in any way possible!

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Thankful and Blessed for Recent Writing Success—Milestone Achieved!

🙏I was pleasantly surprised and very humbled to learn that an article I wrote for Voyage Comics made Tito Edwards’ August list for the “Best in Catholic Blogging“.

🙏This writing journey started many years ago. Several times I felt like giving up. I am thankful that God has graced me with the ability to persevere and that he gave me the best friend and helper in my wife Jennifer.

🙏She deserves equal recognition of any of my successes.

Without her providing me time to write, proofreading my work, and keeping me motivated I would not be where I am.

🙏I am also thankful for the gift of St. Thomas Aquinas. His work was a particular inspiration for the article in the link below.

🙏Thank you Voyage Comics and Philip Kosloski for publishing my content on your amazingly fun and faithful website!

💡I highly recommend you visit Voyagecomics.com if you are a fan of fantasy, comics, and science fiction.

http://www.ncregister.com/blog/tito-edwards/proof-of-biblical-accounts-of-israel-and-abraham-how-dads-influence-daughte

#catholic #Blogging #gratitude #thankfulness #success #teamsuccess

#Accomplishingdreams

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How to Start Writing Despite having an Impossibly Busy Schedule as a Parent!

This article is for any parent who has an English, Literature, or writing degree, or simply a knack or wordsmithing, but you cannot seem to fit time to pursue your dream because you’re too exhausted from rocking your full-time job as an amazing mom or dad! Check out the article in the link below for incredibly simple ways to start writing now.

https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/5-actionable-simple-strategies-help-parents-write-right-chicoine/

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