Guided by the Light: From Stormy Seas to the Star of Bethlehem

Guest Post by: David Tonaszuck

A reflection on the Epiphany of the Lord. The Gospel of Matthew 2:1-12

Dear friends in Christ,

They say the sea has a mind of its own, but on the night of February 18, 1952, it was a monster. The wind howled over Cape Cod, Massachusetts, turning the Atlantic into a black, heaving wilderness. Two tankers, the Pendleton and the Fort Mercer, broke in half, scattering sailors across the freezing waves. The radio called it a “dual disaster,” and for a while, it looked like nobody would come back alive.

Bernie Webber was a young Coast Guardsman, steady but quiet, not the sort who chased glory. He took the helm of the CG-36500, a wooden lifeboat barely 36 feet long—just big enough for a handful of men and a prayer. The Coast Guard didn’t expect much. The storm was too fierce, the water too cold, the Pendleton mostly gone. But Bernie and his crew set out anyway, following the flickering beam of the Chatham light into the wild unknown.

They found the Pendleton’s stern battered but afloat, thirty-two men huddled on deck, faces lit by the ship’s emergency lamps and the jagged blue of lightning. Every wave threatened to smash the little boat to pieces. But the men jumped, one by one, and Bernie caught them all. When he’d taken on the last man, the boat was so loaded it barely cleared the waves. The compass was gone, swallowed by the storm. The radio was dead. There was no way to steer home except by faith.

That’s when the miracle happened. As the rescue boat neared the shore, the men saw a strange glow on the horizon—dozens of car headlights, shining out from the parking lot at Chatham. Families, friends, strangers and townsfolk all lined the coastline, their cars pointed toward the sea, their lights blazing to guide the lost men home. It was hope writ large, a signal fire made of headlights, a promise that someone was waiting, that the darkness would not win. The CG-36500 followed those lights all the way to safety. Every man survived.

The story of that night is retold in books and movies—The Finest Hours—because it’s more than just a rescue. It’s about what happens when people risk everything to follow the faintest hint of light, refusing to let fear or darkness have the last word.

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Shining Like Joseph: Building the Kingdom in Everyday Family Love

Guest Post by: David Tonaszuck

A reflection on the Gospel of Matthew 2:13-15, 19-23

Dear brothers and sisters,

It was Christmas Eve in a small town nestled between snowy hills. The streetlights glimmered on the dusting of fresh snow, and every window on Maple Avenue seemed to glow with warmth. Inside one house near the end of the block, Daniel—a father of three—was finishing the last of the Christmas decorating with his youngest, Anna, perched on his shoulders. As she reached up to place a paper star atop the tree, a sense of hope and quiet joy filled the room.

Daniel had always loved Christmas, but this year was different. Only weeks before, he had lost his job. The security they’d known was gone and the search for new work in their small town was slow. There had been anxious late-night talks with his wife, Grace—whispered concerns about the mortgage, the future, how they’d stretch what they had to make it through. Yet Daniel refused to let fear steal the joy of Christmas from his family. As those familiar Gospel readings filled their home, Daniel heard them with new ears. The story of St. Joseph, quietly leading the Holy Family to Egypt, called to him—not as a figure out of reach, but as a father just trying to keep his family safe and wrap them in hope.

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A Christmas (Birthday) Letter to the Infant Son of God

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Below is a letter I dedicated to our Lord Jesus Christ in celebration of his birth, December 25, 2020 Anno Domini.


Dear Baby Jesus,

In a stable, 2000 years ago, a seemingly ordinary infant was born. Through the inspiration of the Holy Spirit, shepherds and kings from afar learned about His incredible presence. God uses the most common of circumstances to work the greatest of all miracles–the Incarnation. God so loved the world He sent you–His only Son– to bridge the great gulf, the separation caused by sin.

Wrapped in swaddling clothes, laid in a manger, you my king took the form of mankind. I have heard the Nativity story dozens of times. This Advent I feared I would take your origin story for granted. Instead, I am grateful for the opportunity to gaze on the Nativity scene through new eyes–not merely of a follower, but also as a father.

My children are a reminder of your goodness, truth, and beauty. Seeing the twinkle in their eyes when they gaze at the Nativity Scene at home or church is priceless. The smiles on my kids faces as they color “presents” pictures for my wife and I remind me the true reason for the season!

People are born everyday on this earth, but only once a year do we remember the greatest birth of all.

Jesus my servant king, Emmanuel, Prince of Peace, God-hero, I adore you and celebrate with my family and friends the anniversary of your birth. I pray that my heart is enlarged to make room within the inn of my soul for you, my family, friends, and people I meet daily!

Praised be to God in the Highest and Alleluia for our Savior’s arrival.

With great love and gratitude,

Your adopted son,

Matthew


For us men and for our salvation

he came down from heaven,

and by the Holy Spirit was incarnate of the Virgin Mary,

and became man.

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How to Prepare for Those Who Attend Christmas Mass

By: John Tuttle

Years ago, a copy of a Chicago Tribune magazine arrived at our house. It came around the holidays, and in it I read a rather upsetting article. It has stuck with me ever since. If that was the writer’s intent, he certainly succeeded.

In his article “Why I declared war on Christmas”, Christopher Borrelli dismissed any real threat to Christmas with a sizable dollop of sarcasm, yet remained true to his word in that he was “undermining” the authentic meaning of the season. It’s not all about happiness and good feelings. The joy of the season comes from the message of salvation: that there is such a thing as evil in this world and that God is not only more powerful than it, He comes to vanquish the devil, sin, and death. That is where the Christian’s joy comes from.

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The Simple Catholic’s Fourth Christmas Card

Happy Fourth Anniversary of the Inaugural Chicoine Family Christmas Card! While normal families publish and share a card each year my parents have been dealing with my shenanigans. This year was a blur for them. They run a tight shipwreck!

It’s that special time of year again where I get to share all about my family’s adventures and shenanigans. As the resident mischief expert (and kindergartener!), I’ll provide you with the most accurate account of our year.

We’ll go in age order because that’s what we always do at our house (especially when opening presents).

Mommy

Mommy is still a special education teacher and somehow manages to keep up with all of us. She loves playing Pickleball with Daddy (I don’t understand why they hit a ball back and forth when they could be coloring). She took my siblings kayaking this summer, and now she keeps dropping hints about wanting her own kayak for Christmas.

Recently, Mommy had surgery which means I can’t use her as my personal trampoline. I made her lots of pictures to help her feel better. I’m such a thoughtful child.

Daddy

Daddy is still doing his writing stuff and something called being a “semi-funny Catholic meme-lord” (I don’t know what that means, but people seem to laugh). He’s the best jungle gym and gives amazing horsey-rides!

This summer, Daddy went to something called the National Eucharistic Congress. He came back super excited about Jesus and won’t stop talking about it. He’s been reading us a book called The Hobbit at night. I prefer coloring during story time, but my siblings seem interested in this Bilbo person.

Noah

My oldest brother is in 7th grade now (he’s getting so old!). This fall, he did Cross Country, which meant we had to watch him run in circles at random parks. He was pretty fast though!

Noah plays the silver trumpet in band and loves football, especially the Green Bay Packers. He gave me one of their extra hoodies to wear during games. He also makes the best Mac-n-cheese for me!

Amelia

My awesome sister is in 5th grade and plays the saxo-thingy in band. She’s the queen of crafts and makes me cool things out of cardboard.

We got new lofted beds and Amelia has a desk under her bed. She uses this for cool creations, artwork, and making me mini-gifts. She even made me a birthday banner and helped me when I got roller skates! Best sister ever!

Josiah

My partner in mischief is in 3rd grade now. He’s become quite the one-man football team, running back and forth in our living room playing entire games by himself. It’s weird, but Mommy and Daddy think it’s cute. He also got to be in the Olympics! We traveled down to Vermilion. I think my brother is famous now.

He loves looking at football cards, playing with our dog, and is reading chapter books now. We still get into plenty of trouble together!

Avila (that’s me!)

I started kindergarten this year and I’m basically a genius now. I love writing letters, numbers, and drawing everything I see. My artwork is displayed all over the house (mostly with tape, and sometimes in places Mommy hasn’t discovered yet).

I’ve mastered many new shenanigans this year, including:

  • Building fort cities in the living room
  • Leaving the bathroom door open so Halpert can drink from his fancy water bowl (Mommy calls it a toilet)
  • Spending an entire week as a dragon (ROAR!)

My favorite foods are anything from Mommy’s plate (it always tastes better), and breakfast burritos with hot sauce. I’m very sophisticated.

Halpert

The newest member of our family! He’s a fluffy puppy who thinks he’s a mighty guard dog. He barks at everyone who walks past his kingdom (our house) and loves to sit on top of the couch to survey his domain.

He’s the best at snuggling when we’re sad and playing with toys. He sleeps in his crate but I’m working on convincing my parents to let him sleep in my room (so far, no luck).

Love, ACGC – Professional Dragon, Fort Architect, and Certified Mischief Maker

P.S. Thanks to Daddy for helping edit this letter. I paid him in dragon roars this year!

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Christmas D̶a̶y̶ Season— Experience the Joy of the Incarnation

Secular society hits us with commercialization of Christmas and makes the world weary after December 25th.

The day after the celebration is often spent returning gifts to stores.

Where is the joy in that act?

Shouldn’t we spend the days after the birth of our Savior still reveling in awe of the Incarnation (God becoming man when truly reflected upon brings one to tears, I was leaking joy from my eyes earlier this week).

But Christmas is not a day it’s actually a season.

Jesus saved us from sin and day. The very least we can do is to leave up our Christmas tree for the 12 days of Christmas.

How do you celebrate Christmas as a season?

🎄⭐✝️❤️🙏

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Why the Holidays Don’t Have to be Perfect in 2024

💫💫💫Too often society places pressure for the perfect “holiday” season:

🔷all the gifts must be precisely wrapped and laden under the Christmas tree in a tidy order,

🔷the Christmas meal has to be cooked to the exact temperature and paired with the appropriate side dishes depending on the main dish,

🔷 family members need to behave–especially your “estranged/weird” uncle [or aunt or other unique relative you may have].

The Perfection Pitfall

⚜️Honestly, I fall into this fallacy almost every year myself.

⚜️This year was no different. Stomach flu, toddler tantrums, and lack of sleep dominated the weeks leading up to my Advent.

⚜️I struggled at times to see the purpose in the pain. Going to Sunday Mass helped reorient me back to the right path.

Reason for the Season

⚜️The season of Advent is not about preparing for the “perfect” Christmas where Mary and Joseph get a room at the inn.

⚜️Rather, Advent is about preparing for the birth of Jesus Christ. His birth took place in the messiness of the stable, his Passion and Death took place on the messiness of the Cross.

⚜️Not everything in my life will be neatly fit in my control. The same was true for the Holy Family.

Advent

Reflection Questions

❓Is you reaction to unplanned events similar to the humble reaction of Jesus, Mary, & Joseph?

❓How have you prepared your soul for Joy?

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